I’ve seen this dating error a few times, usually from more youthful / less experienced females.
It is created away from a interior challenge and away from anxiety about:
- Being “one of numerous” or perhaps a quickly forgotten thing that is sexual
- Dropping in love (too quickly)
- Being not good enough
The foremost is if the guy results in as a new player. She likes him and would like to be she resents him with him, but at the same time.
The second reason is once the emotional whirlwind is extremely intense, she likes him a great deal and she’s afraid of dropping mind over heels.